By Jeff Okita, Founder at Six Taste
Breaking habits are hard. At twenty-four years young, I still think of
myself as being open and flexible, and that my personality is still
being shaped. Although I know I’ve been approaching the past two weeks
with the purpose of making a more meaningful first impression, I find
myself falling into old habits. I think it’s because I’m not putting
myself in enough situations to practice.
Can
people change?
I remember having this discussion with people and most say you can’t. I think you
can, yet most people see my view as idealistic. I’m not saying it’s
easy, I think it’s extremely hard to change, but it can be done.
If
a person is self-aware, practices, and can measure progress, I think
change can be made, it’s just extremely difficult. Look
at the show ‘The Biggest Loser’. Say what you will about reality television, I
find this show fascinating because it’s about breaking extreme habits.
These individuals have to go to the Biggest Loser Facility and discover
the root causes of their weight gain, eat healthy, exercise daily, and track their progress. That’s why most
contestants are able to keep the weight off - they have made a
fundamental change of how they live their life.
Every day people don’t have the luxury of a trainer to force them to
practice changing a habit. Instead, if we’re serious about making a
change, we have to "create" a trainer, or create a system that forces us
to practice. The question becomes, how serious do you want to change?
What are you willing to risk to make the change? How uncomfortable are
you willing to get?
Personally, I don’t know the answer to these questions yet, but I'd be curious to hear yours...
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